--server
mysql -u root -p -P 3308 -h 127.0.0.1
Root@1237890
CREATE USER 'root'@'183.234.76.163' IDENTIFIED BY 'owenchen';

-- 1. 创建允许从你客户端 IP 连接的用户（把 116.6.40.30 换成你实际电脑的公网IP）
CREATE USER 'root'@'183.234.76.163' IDENTIFIED BY '你的密码';

-- 2. 赋予权限
GRANT ALL PRIVILEGES ON *.* TO 'root'@'183.234.76.163' WITH GRANT OPTION;

-- 3. 刷新权限
FLUSH PRIVILEGES;

--Dbeaver驱动属性
allowPublicKeyREtrieval True